

You might feel like you say something and the only thing listening are the walls in your bedroom.įor me, this metaphor of the echo chamber isn’t related to social media echo chambers.

You might feel as if you’ve got no one or nothing to talk to. When you’re lonely the voices in your head are often magnified. But my social anxiety kept me stuck, incapable of finding a way off the island in my mind.” 4. I sit there all day, wishing I could find a way out.

So to use this in a metaphorical sense, you can say “My loneliness is a deserted island. When you’re isolated, you’re likely to start feeling lonely because you have no one to talk to and no support network to keep you safe.Īnd there’s nothing more isolating than being on a deserted island.

Loneliness and isolation are closely associated concepts. To use this in a story, you might turn it into a simile and say “she felt like a discarded toy, sitting around waiting for someone to play with her all day every day”. It imagines the toy might feel incredibly lonely sitting in a dark cupboard waiting to be played with. Imagine if that toy had feelings – it would feel so neglected!Īnd that’s where this metaphor comes from. A toy that’s been discarded after a child has grown up sits in a box unused for years on end. A Discarded ToyĪnyone who has watched Toy Story will understand this. Even if you can get up and go for a walk or watch television (unlike in prison), you still don’t feel free of that weight of feeling all alone. You could even extend this to say that it’s “a prison for the mind”. Just like when you’re in prison, you can’t get out of your predicament no matter how hard you try. To demonstrate that sense of being trapped, you can say that “loneliness is a prison”. This can give you a sense that you’re ‘trapped’. They feel like they want to escape that sense of isolation and sorrow that you can experience when you’re all alone. People who are lonely don’t want to be alone. The following are 13 of my favorite similes, metaphors and analogies for loneliness. Conclusion A List of Loneliness Metaphors
